I mentioned in an earlier post that our family is . . just not being a good family right now. I’m only writing about it here because when there’s something going on in my life that’s either stressful or worrisome, I cannot write. Does that happen to any of you?
Some days on the blog, I have six or more posts and have to tell myself . . STOP! No one cares about all this stuff. Days like the past week, I struggle to come up with one post. Who wants to see the hot dogs we had for dinner? Who cares that I’m on Day 8 of living in the basement? Only 22 more days to go. Better yet, who wants me to come spend 22 days with them? 🙂
I’m fine. I just have to learn to put things behind me and walk away from situations that I cannot change. But, if I’m more quiet than normal, you know what’s happening.
And, the crazy thing is . . now that I’ve said this, I’ll probably think of 10 blog posts today but I guess confession is good for the soul . . though I didn’t really confess much, did I? 🙂
Anyway, the blog and all of you who either comment, or write or who don’t really but every now and then I get an email saying “I always read but never comment”, you guys are what keep me happy and sane. Oops . . maybe not the sane part. 🙂
Shauna Trueblood says
I don’t know about others but I always look forward to your post no matter the subject. Some I relate to closely, others make me shake my head and say she’s crazy (but a good crazy). I am never going to be a big cook or gardener, but I like reading your post because they are entertaining. I am sorry that you are going through a rough spot, but for me at least I enjoy all your posts. You outlook on life is what draws me, it is not always sunshine and roses, but never is real life. But you have a great sense of yourself and the world around you that interests me. If you don’t feel like writing I get that, but know no matter what you talk about there are those of us who want to and enjoy reading your take on life.
vivoaks says
Upheaval in your life can do that, and your life is seriously in flux right now. You’ve got lots of change going on in your life, so stress is to be expected. It just changes how you look at things, and how everything seems” different.”. Just remember:. “This, too, shall pass.”. Tie a knot in the end of your rope and hang on!!!
Elle says
I always say “show me a normal family and I’ll show you mine”. 😉 Hang in there Judy. Write, don’t write. It’s all okay!
Sandy G says
I start my day out with reading your blog. Coffee and Judy. I have been reading it since Chad was in high school ( how long is that?? ) Keep doing what you are doing. We all go thru things that are stressful so we can relate. I enjoy reading about your day and the good meals you cook, knitting and cross stitch projects and Boots and Rita. Vince too!
RuthW in MD says
I am especially interested in the Basement Life stories, because I know that there are little changes in people and habits that come about because of tight quarter living, and some stay on when the spacious living starts again. Also, hearing how you and Vince are dealing with such changes encourages me in my life. Thank you for any blogging you feel like doing!
Teri says
Hugs and ??…..
Teri says
That was supposed to hugs and an emoji of lips meaning kisses, but I had no idea it came out as a ?….LOL
Christina Coats says
HI Judy, ditto to all above, it makes my day to start off with your blog and coffee. I love all you chat about, and enjoy comments from basement to Vince! You always makes me my smile no matter what and I hope the smiles will be back with you soon., love and God Bless xx
Teri says
Hope you are feeling less stressed Judy. Love your blog!
Cindy F says
Take care of yourself first. I love reading about this and that…all that you post… but I understand how sometimes life just put a damper on everything….especially situations where you can’t do anything. Self care is important. I used to blog but after my father had a stroke and my mother was going through Alzheimer’s at the same time I just quit writing. I was traveling back and forth to California constantly and I think I just didn’t want to put into words what I was feeling or all the other things started happening in my life. I didn’t want to be that Sad Sack…even though that’s how I was feeling. And….sometimes you don’t want to put anything hurtful out there. Anyway….those of us out here that have had family issues know that not everything is something anyone wants to write about so please don’t worry about it.
Sally says
I always read but rarely comment. I enjoy all that you write about. I am mostly a quilter a sometimes knitter and am trying to resist the pull back to cross stitch. Lol. That’s something I did years ago. Love your blog.
Dottie+Newkirk says
When I “found” you a few years back, I was always (and still am) anxious to read your blog posts. They’ve always inspired me and reminded me of so many things in my life. Thanks for be there for us
Betty Edwards says
Judy, I don’t know how long I’ve read your blog but there is a pull to do so. I think it’s the Louisiana connection. I am not a writer. I was cleaning off a table near my chair and there was a Journal someone gave me. It’s leather and I love it. It’s empty, I’ve tried writing blogs, journals but just can’t get past the first! Lolo so just hang in there!. We all go through stuff. My pastor says just cast it on the Lord and you are done. It works! Love ya lady
Sherry Bobak says
I love reading about all your adventures! Been following since your quilting days and have started commenting a little more often. Had to get over my shyness. For some reason, I seem to get your posts in the evening. I like it that way because I can save the best for last and go to bed in a good mood. Thanks
Rebecca says
-I hope you don’t feel you must entertain us. You know we keep reading you through ups and downs and different crafts! I also hope your family situation will smooth out. Hang in there!
Val says
Judy there are a lot of us who have families that have problems. It was a huge surprise for me when it happened, but I keep putting 1 foot in front of the other and move forward, sideways or backwards whatever it takes to stay calm and composed. Long run on sentence to sy hang in there. Love your blog. I enjoy reading it while having my coffee every morning.
Claudia Duke says
You start my day with a cup of tea. Here’s hoping your family gets back to being in a good way soon and the stress will be relieved. I always enjoy your posts and so far have resisted the cross stitch bug. I just keep looking at all the quilt and other handiwork projects I’ve started. I really need to finish some of them first, especially since my husband gave me a new Bernina for my anniversary/birthday last August. Reading about yours and Jo’s lovely stitching projects has both made me want to jump in and given me the satisfaction of seeing a well done completed project. Thanks.
Liz says
Judy did your mom sell her longarm?
Andrea says
I am one of those readers who rarely comments. I had to return to full time work, so I catch up on blogs on the weekend. It feels silly replying to something that’s a week old, so I don’t do it very often. I first found your blog through quilting the last time you lived in MO. Even though you’re not doing much quilting these days I still enjoy your blog. I’ve learned a lot from you, both things I want to do and things I will never want to do. 🙂 No, your life is not whiz bang wall to wall excitement, but there’s something about the way you write that makes it interesting to read. I’m sorry you’re having a yucky family thing going on, but hopefully it resolves itself soon.