Long ago, we made a decision that a dog would not sleep in our bed. Then, along came Rita. For anyone who’s ever had a dachshund, you may be surprised to hear this but Rita, a tiny little chihuahua, is about ten times more bull headed than any dachshund I’ve ever had.
Rita decided she was going to sleep with us and, at first, we were able to get her all tucked into her bed, then we’d sit and watch TV for a while, then we’d sneak off to bed, giggling that we were about to outsmart a little dog.
We’ve made the mistake of letting her sleep with us a couple of times and then, there was no turning back. I do not like sleeping with a dog! I do not like a dog deciding for us when it’s time to go to bed!
These days, she parks herself in front of the bedroom door about 5 p.m. and no one is going through that door unless Rita goes too! We’ve tried putting her bed on the floor beside our bed. Nope . . not falling for that trick.
Last night when we started to go to bed, Vince and I were planning how we’d get in the bedroom without her noticing. How crazy is that? We are the adults, right? We’re in control of what happens in this house, right? Nope! I got out of the shower and she was sitting by the bed. I left her in there and I went back into the living room. Vince and I were laughing. We decided we’d leave her in there and we’d go sleep in the other room but then she started barking . . just sitting by our bed barking, like she was saying “I know what you’re doing and it isn’t going to work!”
It was about 11 p.m. and Vince said “I’m going to find a solution!”
He ordered this bassinet. It will be here tomorrow. Just one more night for us to try to figure out how to get to bed without Rita wanting to sleep in our bed.
One night we brought two dining room chairs in the bedroom, put them next to the bed and put her bed in those chairs and she slept there. She was happy to be beside us but I was afraid all night that she would fall out of the chair. I think this bassinet may work. We’ll see.
We’ll put her favorite bed in the bassinet and then we’ll put her in there and pull it up to the side of our bed and hopefully she’ll be close enough to us that she’s fine.
She seems to have developed a fear of being left. If we’re gone more than a couple of hours, she ends up having tummy issues. I guess that goes along with my car not starting . . we need to leave the house more often. She’s gotten so used to someone being here with her every minute of every day that she panics when she’s left alone. We’ve ruined every pet we have! 🙂
Diana says
I hear you. We’re home so much and the dogs don’t go anywhere I’m starting to think they are no agoraphoic!
Nelle Coursey says
You have not ruined her! She is blind and she knows how things are supposed to work. No one told her about daylight savings time and she has her time mixed up. LOL Plus she loves you and wants to be with you. I am sure being blind is not easy for her. But you are doing a wonderful job with her. It won’t take her long to figure out the apartment either.
Elaine/MuddlingThrough says
Right there with you. We have three dogs and they all live in the house and they are all rotten.
cassews says
Oh boy she has your number .. she has you both curled around her widdle claw and knows it .. Yep I know the feeling only mine is 78 pounds of wanting on the bed.
Cilla says
I’m so glad to hear that neither of you spoil her….bwaaahahahahah
Dottie says
It’s funny, but not at the same time…..Our pets do seem to rule the roost from time to time, if not all the time.
Twyla says
I just read this to James. He says you have just described Mavis. She gets upset if we do not go to bed by 10 minutes to 9. Then she will huff off to bed by herself.
Judy H says
Dogs are pack animals, and you’re her pack. She relies heavily on you because she’s blind, so sleeping with you is comforting to her. When we got our dog, my husband didn’t want to let him sleep with us, but when he cried he caved and brought him to bed. After that there was no turning back. He slept with us every night! I miss his warm presence.
Susan Nixon says
You are so hilarious! I know you love that dog, for sure.